Friday, November 20, 2009

accomplished

Whew! Another event accomplished! Last night was so much fun! We had a full house (sold out theater) for our New Moon pre-screening at Jordan Commons.
A huge thank you to my wonderful comrades Chal and Liv. We make a great team and nothing this huge could have ever been pulled off with out each of our special touches. Go Private Design!
Also, thank you so so much to all of our clients who came and supported us and who have been so loyal throughout the years.
Lastly, a HUGE thank you to our amazing helpers: Carmen Crane, Mijken Ashton, my mommy Linda, Lauren Ricci, Harmony Jenkins, Sheryl Sweeten, Linda and Courtney Cook, Greg Carlile, Ryan Hadlock, Ryan Bailey (my main man), Lana and Uncle Johnny Poll, Sanette Brady and her whole gang, and Laurie Hewitt.
We had a TON of giveaways, mostly salon services that were donated by the girls we work with, plus each person received a $25 gift card for waxing services with one of us 3 at PD, and everyone got treats and a bundt cake from 'Nothing Bundt Cakes'..... huge hit.... thanks April!
So, if you missed out, you should consider not missing Eclipse on 30 June next year!
Maybe by then I will have read at least the first book!

Monday, November 16, 2009

it struck me in the grocery store


Yesterday while I was grocery shopping, I paused and took note of how I felt. I felt happy, I felt free, I felt accepted, I felt loved, I felt complete. Out of all places and times, I am not sure why then or there, but it didn't matter.


It was a good reminder to me that I am happy. That I am grateful. That I am in a good place... with a really great man.


I told him when I got in the car. He asked me if I was sure.


I am positive.


Life is good, because it is.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

laughs

Hanging out and Megan and Mark's to see Manny win!Thanks for ordering the fight Mark! Go Pacquiao!
and then a little later.... Jared was just a singin'


and a 'dancin.

.....So good to have our 'farm fresh Idaho boy'/ 'Seattle city slicker' in town for a visit!

Sunday, November 8, 2009

p.s.

I never did actually show the proof....
So, here it is! What a good lookin' son, huh?

bring it on

The fights were last night so we hung out with some friends.
Any reason we can find to gather most likely means:
it will = a good time. Rockstar Lori

The boys being silly: Ryan, Russ, and Brian

The pretty pose. Melissa, me, Lori, Harmony

Sunday, November 1, 2009

treats

Halloween weekend brought us treats including:a visit from Coco (the bigger of the two), he's playing with his 'cousin' Xandera visit from Taylora chance to meet Hermoine (a.k.a. Kate Bailey)and Batman (Keegen)and to see Alden almost sleep through the funanother annual visit to the Barnsen Halloweenie Garage Party... it gets bigger every yeara visit to cute Brecken Barnsen the kitty cat and a fabulous dinner party with some great friends... all the while tending to the late night trick-o-treaters. It was a spooktacular weekend.... BOO!

Monday, October 26, 2009

folks + fun

I can't believe that tonight marks another year since that last Halloween party at my parents! It seems like last years just happened! But, I look at the difference in the kids, and I see how much my niece and nephews have all grown! Here is Caleb hacking away at grandpas pinata made of steel

And Sleeping Beauty Emma looking as pretty as ever
Then there's Nicholas and Andrew all in black. I think one is the grim reaper and the other is some character from a cartoon or animation that I have never heard of... kids these days.... (I said that on purpose, just to sound old!)
Then the Crane Clan. So cool. Too cool. Caleb with his trophy. Take that grandpa!

And most importantly, the 2 lovebirds. AHH. How sweet is that!
But, truly, it is so nice to see my sis whole again and to have her back. So, thanks Kelly for bringing that out in her again. I love to see her so happy.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

thrift 4

This is my latest project. A coffee table. I am running out of space, but saw this and decided I could refinish it and then replace our little stools in front of the couch for something "new". I sprayed the gold to a hammered silverthen gave it a couple coats of stain, and then a matte finishing spray, and replaced the glass for wood that I stained to look like slate or concrete. It was all an experiment of creativity. Ryan loves it.
That's all that matters.
My man is happy.

Saturday, October 17, 2009

10.16 = party time

OCTOBER 16 2009...
Happy 40th Russ!
me with the event planner: Forresta little bit of P diddy Russella little food a little bit of Kelly
(we are so glad you decided to hang out with your REAL friends!)a little cake actiona little family time in "smalltah"
(this is Andrew, brother of our sis-in-law)
by the end of the night, he was just my brother.
it was easier that way:)
a little bit of Amber and Dallasa little black jack was goin' on a little bit of high rollinga little bit of lovin'a little bit of DJ Vance and Kassiea little bit of Nick, Blaire, Tara and Heidi

a little bit of Harmo and Monica

a little bit of crazy with "the Jayci"

....and bunches of "Little's" made for a night of a WHOLE LOT of fun...

we love you Russell!

Friday, October 9, 2009

chef


I think my husband has a talent that I have not fully tapped into yet. He is quite the chef. I am impressed. Lately his recipes and concoctions have really been great. Yesterday I worked late...again, and I came home to a wonderful and welcoming smell of a home cooked meal. Stuffed green peppers. Who would have thought? Chef Bailey. What is next? I love suprises.

Sunday, October 4, 2009

a wedding

a perfect plan
a picturesque setting


a proud walk


a love uniteda new beginning
a gorgeous setting for a celebratory feasta simple and pretty cake

a best friendshipa delicious menu
a proud matchmakera very memorable wedding toasta list of "improvements and admonishments"...for Brendaa loving fathera princess way to feed her princea Spitale way to take care of business (look at his mischievous face!) a new journey, a new life, a new path... hand in hand
A huge congratulations! We adore you both and love you more!


priceless

The intense looks on both Ryan's and Brenda's faces as they watch their teams play each other on the Sunday NFL ticket. Dolphins vs. Chargers... Go BOLTS! (sorry brenda!)The huge look of shock on Brenda's face...upon returning from a bathroom break and finding her soon-to-be husband all red-necked out in the wife beater he was hiding underneath his crisply ironed GQ shirt. We haven't laughed that hard in a long time! Thanks Giovanni! If you ask G, it is perfectly fine to not only wear the wife beater underneath shirts, but to also sport it while taking a run, mowing the lawn, or working out at the gym. We love the redneck! It will keep Brenda grounded, and add that extra spice to their new life!

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

soup


I never post about food or cooking. Either one interest me much. But, on Sunday I was craving soup, and I wanted this particular soup that I had seen in a picture. I had no idea how to make it, but I winged it and came up with this. It is a new Bailey favorite.
4 cans chicken broth
half an onion chopped
1 spinach brick
12 pre made meatballs (I used Meirs frozen meatballs)
a small amount of angel hair pasta broken into small pieces
1 chopped potato with skin
salt
ground pepper
a dash of Italian seasoning
Simmer till potatoes are soft before you add the noodles and meatballs. Enjoy.

Sunday, September 27, 2009

nostalgia

Friday night FootballRyan and I went to the Bountiful vs. Viewmont High School Football game on Friday night. As his father is a retired school teacher from VHS, and Ryan an alumni of BHS, it was a "must see" event. How funny it was for us to observe the chaos of high school life, and be reminded once again of how thankful we are that those days of drama are long gone for the two of us! It was entertaining, and very nostalgic for my main man.

Friday, September 25, 2009

summer tennis lessons

This summer I started taking tennis lessons from Darrell. He's my father-in-law, and probably the best tennis instructor anyone could ask for. He has been so patient, consistent, and patient. I have actually really started to have fun, and the learning is progressing with each lesson. We practice every Friday and Saturday mornings at the Murray's court. (family friends that just live down the street) The court is in such a great setting, with beautiful trees, garden, and lawn surrounding it's perimeters.

patience in action
the "little engine that could"

learning the serve

Darrell, you are the best! Thank you so much for being such a great teacher and friend!

Saturday, September 19, 2009

colors of life




The Sharing Place Experience: "I think it is critical to have a program for children who have lost a parent to be with other children who know and understand what they are going through. It is a blessing to have The Sharing Place. It would be a great loss not to have this as an out for teens. If it could help one child then it is worth its weight in gold." C.H.



The Sharing Place is dedicated to providing a safe and caring environment where children, teens, and their families who are grieving the death of a loved one may share their feelings while healing themselves.


18 September 2009

We walked into the foyer of 'The Colors of Life Benefit' and after being greeted we walked past this wall of hearts:

posted on the other side of these partitions were the following:The Sharing Place was first introduced to me by Lauren. When she was 15 her dad killed himself. I remember very vividly when she told me. She acted so nonchalantly, like it was no big deal. "It's OK Hannie, really, I am fine." I went home that night knowing that she was not fine. With the wonderful support and help of The Sharing Place, Lauren has grown so much and developed into a beautiful person. She is in a place today that I know she would not be if she hadn't let herself grieve. If she hadn't been taught how to grieve, and that it is OK to process through it. Last night she spoke of her journey. I cried. I was so happy and so touched. Click for her story. Here she is with her amazing mom Sally.

When Stan died, although Carmen already had heard of The Sharing Place, I along with another friend of hers, was so adamant that she get her kids involved there. It has been a god send for her and her three boys. I was talking to Raenie (my little sis) yesterday and we both were in agreement that although we have not benefited first hand from the service of The Sharing Place (thank goodness we have not had reason to!), we feel so indebted to the staff there and to the organization. Without the help that they have provided for Carmen and her family, as extended family, we would feel a loss. We would feel a bigger burden to help them heal, yet not really having the tools to do so. We collectively as a family thank those who work and volunteer there for helping lift such a heavy burden of loss from them and from us, and for helping her boys make sense of it all.


Last night was another refresher course for both myself and for Ryan on gratitude. We have so much! How easy it is for us to forget that.

There was a silent auction. Ryan was in a bidding war over this driver. He lost it by ten bucks! Dang!
There were so many auction items and very generous monetary donations. Very cool to witness. Thank you to my friends and family who gave so graciously and allowed me to pass on your generosity last night. To be there and see, feel, and hear first hand how many lives have been changed and touched by The Sharing Place... well, it was overwhelming.


We are so glad we could take part.


The End.

Monday, September 14, 2009

pga

This past weekend Willow Creek Country Club in Sandy hosted the PGA tour. Ryan and I were talking about going, but hadn't really deciced on which day to go. Then Sharon called and said she had VIP tickets for us if we wanted to meet up with them on Sunday.
So, that is what we did!
Walking down toward hole 18.

VIP baby!
Thanks for hookin' us up Jimmy and Sharon!
We ran into none other than our friend "MC Petty" who was heading up the secuirty for the event all weekend. Small world!

birthday time in so jo

At the last minute our new friend Yvonne decided to throw herself a birthday party. So, Saturday night we loaded up and headed on down to her home. It was quite the spread, with salmon, ribs, chicken, and sausage all on the grill, plus an array of breads, salads, shrimp cocktails, and birthday cake. YUM! It was a perfect evening for dining on the deck.


It wouldn't be a true party for Ryan if college football wasn't on! Go utes! The birthday girl with MelissaPlayin' a little game of quarters... a first for me! It's tricky!

And, the evening ended with a good hearted game of poker.

Thanks birthday girl for throwing such a fun party!

Saturday, September 12, 2009

cleanse


I remember being so hesitant last year as we made preparations to go camping. All I could think about was all the prep, the dirt, the grime, the lack of showers and water, the work, the cooking, the packing and unpacking, and the piles of laundry. It was just too much to think about, let alone actually DO! But, after a very successful trip last year, which turned out to be so much better than my wild imagination led me to believe; I actually looked forward to this year’s trip. I looked forward to no technology, to not being able to be reached via cell phone, internet, IM, text messaging, etc… I looked forward to listening to the wind, to the night sounds in nature, to the crackling firewood, and the distant animal noises that freak me out a bit, but also excite me. I even looked forward to making meals for my two men. The two men that had one sole purpose for this trip: to search for, find, and kill that ever so perfect buck. Yes, morbid to me, but completely thrilling and exciting to them. But, whatever the reason that brought us to the wooded campsite up Harris Flat is of little importance. Of greater importance are the quiet moments in which lessons were learned.

I sat by the fire one night as I held down the fort (i.e. campsite). The smells of fresh wood burning and the sounds of its crackling invigorated me. I LOVE FIRE! I always have. Ask my mom. I grew up with a basement window that always filled with leaves in the fall-time. One fall I had the cleverest idea: to light the leaves on fire! Good thing our house was made of brick! That is all I have to say about that!

Anyway, I sat there one night while the men were out being men… the brave hunters they are. I stared at the fire for a long time. As I stared, I thought and thought, and just let my mind go. My thoughts turned to cleansing and to the idea that fire is a cleanser. I then thought about all the things in my life that I could get rid of which would ignite an internal cleanse of myself.

I had a notebook and pen beside me and I grabbed them. I started to write all the things in my life or in my character that just needed to go. Things that were in me, or a part of me, that needed to burn. To be rid of those things could help me be better, be cleansed. I tore the papers apart so that each word was its separate piece. I then crinkled the papers and one by one threw them into the fire. As I did this, I released that thing from my life. It was a peaceful night. It was an awakening for my soul. I could feel the cleansing from the powers of the divine. It was healing and it was good. I went to bed that night feeling lighter, feeling refreshed.

Just because I had that experience, I know it does not make me perfect, and I am not that naive to believe that I won’t ever again possess those characteristics that I burned that night. But, what I do know is that awareness, and the willingness to accept imperfection in ones self, and then to consciously “burn” those things, is a huge step toward being a much better human being.

So, upon returning home, although I still had piles of laundry to wash from our second camping adventure, it just didn’t seem to matter. I had moved one more step forward and toward progression. And it just felt right.

Monday, September 7, 2009

weekend in la

This Labor Day weekend we went to LA with our friend Jason. He has been bugging us for a long time to come hang out with him in his old neighborhood where he lived for six years while going to school. It finally worked out, so off we went for some California sunshine and lots of fun!

We stayed at the Marriott at Marnia del ReyWe ate at a fantastic restaurant in Malibu called Moonshadows
here is our view from our tablethe four of us at dinnerRyan in heaven... a woman on each side... what more could he ask for? Jason took us to his friend's house for a backyard BBQ and pool party.... his friend just happens to be a player for the Oakland Raiders and has a super sweet house in "the valley" back of house looking up from the pooljust chillin at poolRyan walking up the stairs on our way out cuz it was time for a little baseball action!We went to the Dodgers Stadium and watched them play the San Diego Padres
We spent some time at Venice Beach... major people watching. Our favorite was the body building contest that we just "happened upon"soaking up the sunwatching the surfers
It was a nice weekend. We were able to see LA from a "local" perspective and hang out at some really cool places. Thanks Jason!

Sunday, August 30, 2009

kind words left unsaid are a waste of existence

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

golf

This past weekend we mixed it up a bit and became "groupies" of our friend Nick. He was playing in the Utah Open at Oakridge Country Club in Davis County. Since that is basically in our backyard, we decided to tag along. We had so much fun. I have only been to a couple live golf tournaments, but never to actually watch someone who I knew and was cheering on. So, to add the personal element of friendship made it that much more fun. At least for me. Golf is an amazing sport. It is so different to watch live, and I thoroughly enjoyed myself as we followed Nick hole by hole. He is a great golfer. So, keep your eyes open and watch for Nick Nelson in the golf world. He's pretty amazing! Go Nick!
Can't wait to stalk you during the next tournament!

Sunday, August 23, 2009

journey

I didn’t know what to do. At least, in my clouded mind, soul, and heart, so full of grief and confusion, in that moment of life, I thought I did not know what to do. But, looking back on that time, I now know that I did. I did know what to do. I did have my own answers. It was just a matter of articulating, processing, and trusting. Trusting my higher self. (That part of each of us that talks to ourselves in our head. That part of each of us that we usually tell to “shut up, you’re thinking crazy!” Only to think back and realize that maybe ‘higher self” was right all along.)

It was later in the evening. My husband at the time was down in the TV room, remote in hand, in his evening zone. Meanwhile, upstairs in my dressing room (a little cove to the side of our master where I would get ready for the day) I was face down and sobbing into the carpet. Body shaking, nose running, face soaking wet from tears, puffy eyes, splitting headache. That kind of sobbing. I had been there for quite awhile. I was pleading for someone to just hear me. For something or someone to just tell me what I needed to do! I was in the depths of despair. I was lost and feeling completely alone. I knew in my heart of hearts that this was a major turning point in my life, but which turn to take? I could not decide. I didn’t even know what my options really were. I just knew with my whole soul that something had to change. That I needed different. As I sobbed and sobbed, begged and pleaded, I heard a voice. I heard it so clear. It spoke in my head. I think that up to this point in my life, it was the first time I heard that voice and I didn’t try and shush it and tell it that it was talking crazy. I listened, and it simply said “You know where your path you are on right now it headed. You know what direction that one will take you. But, you will never know any different unless you try. Just go see what is out there. Try. You won’t be stuck, just go find out. You can always come back to here, but how will you know if here is really right unless you go see for yourself? Just go!”

Instantly the sobbing ceased. I sat up, leaned against the dresser, and just stared. Stared at the painting that hung on the wall in front of me and listened to the silence. I whispered, “Please just show me that I am not alone and that I won’t be alone” and in the moments after that whisper, I heard a click. Click. Click. The dresser drawer handles were clicking. I knew I was not alone. I felt the warmth, I felt the love. I knew things would be okay.

I went to bed.

After that night, I left. I moved out of my home that I had shared with my husband. I moved away from the life that we had had together for 11 years. I moved forward. I had to. I knew with great resolve that this was the right thing to do. Thanks to my higher self, thanks to the universal powers and the divine intervention that aided me, I knew.
So, as the opposition and resistance came at me from all ends, from him, from immediate family members, from extended family, from neighbors and friends. While they were all trying to tell me of my wrongdoings and poor choices; I stood firm. Because I knew.

Looking back at that time in my life I remember the loneliness. I remember the awful feelings of being so wrongly judged and so completely misunderstood. I remember wanting to shout out for everyone to hear that I was nothing that they were judging me to be. But, I did none of that. I remained silent. I thought silence was the best because I did not feel that my life or his was anyone’s true business. I felt that no matter what I said, judgments were already in place and feelings were already strong, so what good would my sentiments really be to anyone?

Silence does speak though. It speaks volumes. Maybe I should have shared more. Maybe I should have been vocal. But, I didn’t. I was too tired and sad and frustrated and feeling so alone. I didn’t want to fight anymore. Not with myself or anyone. I just wanted to focus on how life for me could turn in a new direction and begin for me.

That is when God sent me Ryan.

As a side note here, before I get to Ryan, let’s talk about God. I have struggled for a real long time to articulate what and who God is to me, always failing at each attempt. Is it a he, a she, a real person, a cloud, a power, something to fear, or not fear just love, is it really a father like I was raised to believe, is it a source to keep me in check and constantly provide guilt in my life, or is God even real?

Then I read a book. She described God for me. Exactly what I feel, and she said it! Finally! So, for me, (because Liz said it better than I could) this is God: “It is a proper name for the power to which I pray, to that indescribable power which makes me feel “warm”. I generally refer to God as Him, which doesn’t bother me, because in my mind, it is just a convenient personalizing pronoun, not a precise anatomical description or a cause for revolution. I have always responded with breathless excitement to anyone who has ever said that God does not live in a dogmatic scripture or in a distant throne in the sky, but instead abides very close to us indeed---much closer than we can imagine, breathing right through our own hearts. I respond with gratitude to anyone who has ever voyaged to the center of that heart, and who has then returned to the world with a report for the rest of us that God is an experience of supreme love. In the end, what I have come to believe about God is simple. It’s like this---I used to have this really great dog. She came from the pound. She was a mixture of about ten different breeds, but seemed to have inherited the finest features of them all. She was brown. When people asked me, “What kind of dog is that?” I would always give the same answer: “She’s a brown dog.” Similarly, when the question is raised, “What kind of God do you believe in?” my answer is easy: “I believe in a magnificent God.””

So, thanks to my most recent read, I have been able to settle the wrestling inside myself on exactly what I felt about the power that is higher. The divine in my life.

Ryan. He came into my life when I was most alone. I had Chal and Jannie and that was about it. Sure, I guess you could say I had family, but from my perspective at that time, not really. They seemed to me to be too busy consoling my soon-to-be ex husband and trying to figure out how to “fix” me. I say this without hostility or judgment or even bitterness. I say this most matter of factly. Because at that time, I really did see things that way. I now know that I may have interpreted the situation a bit harshly, and for that, I now apologize. But, nonetheless, in those moments of time I did not feel the closest to my family. I knew I had a choice. I could hate them and be upset and see them as disloyal and write them off forever, or I could just take care of me and be grateful for what God had given me, and that was Ryan. So, I did get somewhat bitter, and I was upset, but I got over it. I had a bright path a head of me and I was done being sad.

Ryan came into my life exactly three days after my night of crying into the carpet. That is how fast intervention sometimes comes. I didn’t choose that. I have no control. It happened because it was time. It was high time for change. Not just for me either, for both of us. It has been said many times that you better be prepared because you never know when life is going to throw you a curve ball. Just so you know, that is true. We were thrown into each others lives at huge turning points for both of us. He was just exiting a seven year relationship and I an eleven year. Together we were ready for change and we had each other to help make the transition a bit easier.

It has been four years since then. Four years of growth and change. Four years of building and cleansing. It has been amazing. It has been difficult. It has all been a huge journey of discovery. Discovery that would have never happened if I would not have listened to the voice that told me to “Just Go!” And, now I see that all along I did know what to do, I just needed to trust.

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

the search is over

Just like the song says: the search is over... at least for this year. Jordan will most likely continue his quest to find that perfect buck, but we're done. He does have until Sept. 11 to do so. We did the annual camp trip to southern Utah again this past weekend and just returned tonight. Home sweet home... AHHH! Running water! What a luxury!
Well. Here are a few photos of what we encountered.
a coyote
some antelope

a comfy campsite

my favorite: fire!
pretty scenery. this waterfall was actually much prettier in real life. my camera just doesn't do it justice.
All in all, it was a good trip for many reasons. We were able to spend more time with Jordan, especially since he had a lot of one-on-one with his dad when they were out hunting. We removed ourselves from the real life, and were able to completely enjoy nature, the peace of it, and the world minus all the chaos. I was able to finally finish reading a book that I had started a few months ago. A book that I devoured and couldn't get enough of once I really got into it. I think I could write a whole post about this book, and I just may do so. It really hit home to me on so many levels. Stay tuned for more on that later. I was able to have a lot of alone time, and one night in particular while I sat by the campfire alone, thinking, contemplating, meditating.... I was able to really take the time to think about perspective and re align myself and my thoughts and attitudes about so many things. They say that fire is a great cleanser for nature; that it brings out new life and burns away the old. That night, the fire was that for me, for my soul. It was healing. More on that later too...
Another really good thing about this trip was that Jordan was able to learn a really valuable lesson on being prepared. I am going to try and convince Ryan to post about that experience and how that was such a teaching moment for him to his son on so many levels. Finally, today when we took Jordan back home to Kanab, we were able to drop him off at the school so that he could take his FINAL test to complete all high school credit requirements for graduation! We also had to track down his old employer so that he could sign off and verify some hours that Jordan worked that could count as school credit hours. After getting that signed off, and taking the test, he is now going to graduate HS and it will be official on 3 September! High Five! Ryan and I were talking on the way home and have decided it is now time for faith. It is now time to be the support system as much as we can without being too invasive and overbearing, and turning the rest of his fate and his path over to a much higher and wiser power. To relinquish that control (because we don't have control anyway) is actually quite empowering and relieving. He is a good kid, we know this. Only time, life experiences, and all the different bumps in the roads, and twists and turns can really teach him what he needs. And we'll be here the whole time for whatever assistance he needs or asks for. (Well... within reason!)

Sunday, August 9, 2009

lake lv

If you are looking for something out of the Vegas "norm" but still Vegas, you should try out one of the resorts at Lake Las Vegas. It was relaxing. So nice. The perfect weekend getaway for the two of us. We still indulged in a little night gambling, but for the most part it was sunbathing, enjoying the resort, and of course: meeting new friends and people watching. AHH... the best!

canyon creatures

Ever seen one of these signs?
I thought it was pretty unique and it made me smile. It is not the average day that you go driving along in fear of hitting a 400 year old desert turtle or a gila monster.
Too funny...

We took a drive through Snow Canyon... another first for me, and probably the millionth time for Ryan. It was such a nice day.

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

week long boot camp

This has been Ryan and me the last 8 months or so as we have struggled to know how to best help Jordan get through high school. It has been a lesson in patience, understanding, hard work, focus, and unconditional love for us.
(It has also been many lessons in Stats, Numbers, Math, English, and Art History!)

Lucky for Jord, he has an amazing father who would go to any extreme to ensure he succeeds and that he has as many options open for his future as possible. For those of you who are parents, I am sure you completely understand. I, on the other hand, as a side liner just trying to be a support and cheerleader, do not fully comprehend or feel that love. Nonetheless, I do love him. I am so grateful to have the chance to experience "parenting" from this end, as it is not only good life lessons for me, but also gives me such a greater appreciation for my husband; a greater respect for the role of parent. Here are all the packets of homework to fulfill his required credits. Boot camp began last Wednesday...and the homework and packet part is complete TODAY! What a feat! It was huge. Like 12-15 hours a day of reading, studying, comprehending, writing, and brain frying huge!



Soon he will have one of these and his life can really begin! We are so proud of you Jord and can't wait to see your path of opportunity unfold for you.

Now, go take those two tests and send us a photo of you with your diploma!!!

new moon

I have been asked the question so many times lately, I just thought I would put this out there as a little teaser. To answer:
Yes, Private Design will be hosting another event for the Twilight series book
New Moon.
As you can see above, it comes out in November. So, get ready and if you are interested in attending our event, stay tuned as more information will follow soon. We are working with Jordan Commons again, and are almost positive that we will be able to secure an early Premiere pre-screen show at 9:30 pm...even though it doesn't officially come out till midnight!
Check in with us in the next few weeks as we are sure to have more definite information for all you Twilight groupies!
If you came to our event last year, then you already know why you want to come this year! If not... ask someone who came; they will tell you how fun it was!

Monday, August 3, 2009

pcaf

It was time again this past weekend for our trip up to the arts festival in Park City. It was a gorgeous weekend. Sunny, breezy, and just the perfect amount of heat. We checked into our little condo right on Main Street called the April Inn. So cute. And, PERFECT location! Right in the heart of the festival. We met up with some friends later Saturday night at the Sidecar... Best pizza ever. Well, NYC is better, but this is dang close! the april inn


I liked this painting. It looks like some of those women up there. We LOVED the people watching as always. We met some new friends and spent Sunday afternoon with them in the VIP outdoor lounge. It was great fun and free! Score!

But, more than anything, the reason we love the PCAF is for the music! It is so amazing to see all this local talent! It is acoustic and incredible. All day long you can listen to different artists at the different music venues that are set up all along Main. Way cool.
Our favorite musician this year by far is Brett Turner. He is from Ogden. He started playing guitar at age 20, he is 29 now and is sure to be a self made famous musician. We listened to him in the VIP lounge, and then followed him up later that day to the Star Bar where he had another performance. He is way worth checking out and following around. He told us he is at Popular Street Pub in SLC every Wednesday, and then up at Snow Basin on Sundays (but not every one). Check him out here. We love our new friend Brett and can't wait to see him on his way to stardom!


Wednesday, July 29, 2009

naked fish birthday


Happy Birthday to Melissa. And thanks to Naked Fish for a great celebratory meal!

Sunday, July 26, 2009

activity

Gotta love these summer nights! Dinners on patios, barbecuing on the grill, visiting different venues around our area, and attending a baseball game here and there... it can't get much better. How can it almost be August already? I live for these days all year long!



Oh, and we decided since we were already downtown on Friday morning... why not go check out our local parade? It IS the second largest parade in the nation next to Macy's, so we wandered on down the street to see what the fuss is all about. Not impressed. We only lasted 10 minutes, well maybe 15. That is it. Enough of that. We won't be needing to go ever again!
(no offense to you pioneer parade lovers out there! it just wasn't that fun!)

we did snap a photo of the draper city float. why not?

Monday, July 20, 2009

summer fun

We had a family party at Carmen's tonight. It was an early celebration (by two days) for Dad's birthday, a reunion with Raenie since she decided to suprise us with another short visit, a reason to get Mijken out since her foot surgery, and an urge to seize the moments of hot weather when the pool is really enjoyable. Dad with the grandkids.
Zach and Hyrum

"awesome" CalebMijken being the trooper that she is

me with my little sis "rocko-peeko-traino"
Isn't Will like one of the cutest things you have ever seen? Old Pops blowing out those candles.

simple art

This one is for you Gayle. Although Ryan does not think this is very cool, I think he is so cute. This is Ryan back in 1971. The middle one is the original. I mimicked it and added the other two. Someday I will hang them in a special place, but for now, they are on the wall in the hallway.

Sunday, July 19, 2009

baby alex

20 days ago Ryan and I were watching the news and saw the report about a tragic accident that happened earlier that day in Bountiful. A one-year-old little boy's head was crushed under the tires of a big truck and he was in critical condition and rushed to Primary's. Upon hearing the news story my heart sunk. How tragic. I felt sick for the family. They lived in our community.

The next day I called my friend Jason. The reception was horrible. I asked what was up with his phone and he told me that he didn't have great coverage in the hospital. "The hospital?" I asked. "Are you sick? What is going on?" It was then that he told me about his little 18 month old nephew Alex who had been seriously injured the day before when run over by a truck in his driveway. Then the news story hit me even closer to home. Not just some random family in my community, but because of my friendship with Jason, I was connected. My heart sunk even more. It ached. I prayed.

Over the next couple weeks I continued to keep tabs on the little guys condition through his uncle. Every time I talked to Jason, the news was progressively positive. It was a miracle every day. Little feats that baby Alex had overcome, which for some may seem little, but for those involved, were huge.

This past Friday afternoon baby Alex came home. He is going to be fine. His head that was crushed is healing. He is eating. talking. interacting. all those things that just 20 short days ago most would have thought as an impossibility.

This morning in Centerville they honored him. This morning there was a public display of love for baby Alex. Ryan and I went. It was amazing to see community at it's best. They rode for a couple hours in honor of him. In honor of his family. In respect of miracles.

Thank you baby Alex. Although I do not know you, I know someone who loves you dearly. I have felt that love. I have loved you. Thank you for reminding me that we all have armies of angels watching over us, and for letting me see yours in action. .

lazy saturday

We decided we wanted to venture up to Pineview on Saturday afternoon for the following reasons:
1) a beautiful drive up the canyon on the way there
2) a gorgeous setting upon arrival
3) we were dying to soak up some sun rays and tan our bodies
4) lots of people to sit and stare at
5) QT with each other

We were happy we went because:
1) mission accomplished on all above listed reasons
2) the water was so high and so warm that it was refreshing and just plain fun

draper days tradition

It was time for Draper Days again this weekend! It seemed to me like this past year just flew. Like it couldn't possibly have been a year ago that we were were there last! We had such a good time with Jimmy and Sharon again, between garlic burgers, beer, listening to live music outdoors, taking in the ambiance, and relaxing in the summer night, it was perfect. This is then (England Dan and John Ford Coley)And this is now!
Only John Ford Coley. I guess England Dan is dead. Sad.
I wish I could have known him.
Sharon and I had to get in our photo opt with him.Thanks for a great evening! We love you guys!

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

29 again

It was Jess's birthday on Monday so we got together with a few friends on a patio and thoroughly enjoyed the beautiful summer evening with some good friends. I told her to strike a birthday pose, so these are the two that she chose. She is so talented!
Ryan was a good sport in this one; she really wanted to share her birthday bling with him for the pose!
Good times. Happy Birthday friend!

Saturday, July 11, 2009

had never...

Until yesterday I had never:
eaten at a restuarant in Heber City (which was really good!)


seen Ryan fly fish the Provo River

been to Nebo Canyon or driven that whole road from Nephi to Payson

OR...



ever attended the Ute Stampede in Nephi Utah.
...now I have... and Ryan got to do all those things AGAIN!

(thanks for taking one for the team babe! I had a ball... COWBOY UP!)

Sunday, July 5, 2009

a little demo

Ryan and I were trying to decide what to do to celebrate the 4th and were a bit stumped... until I read in the City Weekly that there is something in Ogden called "The Hot Rockin' 4th" at the local Ogden Stadium. We headed up the road about 21 miles and found ourselves mingling amongst some of the finest of fine residents of our great state of Utah! What a treat it was! We had such a good time, between our walk along the river parkway, dinner at Roosters on the patio, meeting new friends at Brewski's who hooked us up with tickets to the event, and last but not least... THE DEMOLITION DERBY! We have decided it will now be our 4th of July tradition. Those Ogdenites really know how to have some fun!
It was a good day!

Friday, July 3, 2009

4th

Happy July 4th weekend!

Sunday, June 28, 2009

sl arts fest '09

We went to see what the Arts Festival had to offer again this year and like always... we were not bored or disappointed... we ran into some good friends: Morgan, Becca and Cindy here's Becca with her man Colter
Here we are trying out our own photography while watching one of the concerts

SAMBA FOGO once again! We saw them last year, so we were so excited to see them preform again this year! They are so amazing!

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

glacier

Ryan and I have talked about how much we would love to go visit Glacier National Park and the surrounding areas, but when it comes to vacations and planning trips, being the beach bums that we are, it seems we always gravitate towards the ocean. Anyway, about a month ago when the opportunity presented itself to stay at my parents timeshare in Whitefish Montana just outside of Glacier.... we decided "Let's go! and let's take the kids along as well!" So, last weekend we left for our Montana adventure. Have you ever done that drive? Let me tell you, it was LONG!!!! We had no idea what 12 hours really meant until we did it! But, finally we did arrive. And disappointed we were not!

This was one of my hasty decisions that Ryan loves to tease me about (my haste fullness that is). A whitewater rafting trip in the middle of our day visit to Glacier. We had no towels, no swim suits, no gear.... just lots of enthusiasm for a great adrenalin rush and some memory makin! Aren't we so sexy in our wet suits? even better all geared up! They didn't have their cameras going on the rapids for us since it was such a last minute plan, but here is a photo of another group on the same rapids that we experienced. It was so much fun!




The boys got in some fly fishing on their float tubes... a lazy afternoon for us all. It was an amazing and at times breathtaking fast trip through some very picturesque country. We are so glad we jumped at the chance and that it worked out for the kids to come along.

yellowstone

We left Whitefish MT and the Glacier Nat'l Park area Monday morning and headed for West Yellowstone. We decided last minute that we may as well take the kids through the park since we were "in the area" and weren't sure when we would make it back that way with them again. The last time they were there with their dad they were really young and have limited memories of the visit. It ended up being a great idea. The park as gorgeous as ever, the air crisp, and the day was beautiful.

Old Faithful never fails... and either does our love for you two. We love you guys and are so glad that we could share this time together... making more memories.

jackson

On our way home we decided to take a jaunt through Jackson Hole so that the kids could visit there as well. We were so close, so why not take a quick walk through the touristy parts and grab a bite to eat? It was a beautiful day there and we arrived in perfect time for a nice dinner at "The Merry Piglets" .... kinda strange name for authentic Mexican, eh?
It is not a trip to Jackson without a photo in front of one of the archways made out of sheds.

Sunday, June 14, 2009

all about steph

Ryan and I are so proud. That is why we went to Portland this past weekend. We received this little announcement in the mail of the much anticipated day (for years...) for Steph's graduation. So off to PDX we flew to celebrate with our great friend. Steph, you rock! We had so much fun in Portland with you! Thanks for giving us a reason (like we need one) to let our hair down (mine more than Ryan's: he thinks he is going bald; I think he is delusional) and play!



She met up with us Friday evening after she got off work at McMenamins.
Shortly after Ryan got his butt kicked in 6 games of pool by our new friend Todd, we were off in her BRAND NEW MINI to our friend Ralph's restaurant: Yakuza. Isn't she so cute? And, so is her car!
The dining experience did not disappoint. So good.
we had to have the signature beet martini. yum.
They had the windows all open in the front so we had an outdoor/indoor table. Oh, and bytheway: we had to travel to Portland to GET OUT of the rain. Yes, the weather was beautiful there, while all of Utah continued to get soaked.
Saturday morning with just a quick walk from our hotel, we were off to the Rose Garden for the big celebration.
Steph was one of 5,000 grads this year from PSU; 1900 of them walked on Saturday. There she is in the middle, can you see her?!!?

Good day. Proud moment.

She did it!

backyard family and friends

Cousins Will and Kenzie playing together at grandma and grandpa Foutz'sWill was reaching for something... too cute. I finally got Ruby to want to take a photo! She is so cute posing with her daddy.
All the Sib's at the parents home for a quick BBQ before the two "non-utahan's" go back to Colorado to start their new lives.... Jake in Aurora and Raen in Pueblo. Our friend Kylee got married in Jamaica in May and she just celebrated here with family and friends 2 weekends ago at a backyard reception. Chal and I work with her mom Dana... the beautiful mother of the bride.

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

cute kids

My nieces and nephews were in town while I was on vacation and I almost missed seeing them. Luckily I didn't have an appointment until 10:30 this morning so I was able to jet on over to mis padres house to see the gang. They are so cute and growing so much. I am sad that I have to introduce myself to them every time I see them because at least six months have passed since last time! They took a minute to warm up to me, but seriously now... who can't love their favorite Auntie Hannie? baby Chance

Sierra and Stan having some nutritious fruit loops for breakfast
Ruby trying really hard to ignore me while daddy Jacob is trying to coax her to look over at me... she is one stubborn kid. But, so beautiful. Look at those cute faces

and... I finally got Rubix (she HATES when I call her that!) to look up!


now Chance loves me cuz I let him play with paper and grandmas flowers
By the time it was time for me to leave Ruby and I were buds. She was so excited to show me her book of art work and pictures from her preschool class.

I sure love those kids and wish they lived closer! I guess now that they will be living in CO, there is not as much excuse for me to not high tail it on over for a weekend visit.

Monday, June 1, 2009

lake powell on indian summer '09

We just returned from heaven and like I promised... because I do always keep promises (at least the important ones) here is a little re-cap of our taste of what it really is like somewhere out there in the universe. Really, truly, if heaven is like Lake Powell... sign me up sister sue! The Moomba
Boys hard at work anchoring our floating abode Mr. RHB and MC Petty
Jannie and ReneeThe Rollins' plus one in the tummyPlayin' a little Rook, and YES, Mr RHB got a whoopin'... which the poker players LOVED! Jannie surfin like a pro the crazy girls are holding on tight! well... maybe not! me and Roggie RogRy, Rog, Jannie: those crazy cats! Here's all the girls after Lana and UJ FINALLY got their butts on the boat to join the party! So, for those of you who don't know, or haven't clued in: Ryan and I have a sister wife. Her name is Kammie, or Cremes, Cremmie, Kamsters... you choose. Anyway, the cat is out of the bag. Here are a few photos of our alone time together... Cremes: we sure love you! Rog just chillinhere are a few captains. Captain RHBCaptain PenneCaptain Creme who took over after I was fired on the job. Gosh! I really was a bad driver! And, there it is. Heaven coming to an end. Lucy is tuckered right out and ready to sail on home to her own bed.
Cheers to another amazing trip to Lake Powell. To Cookie Jar Bay and the security she provided us. To Indian Summer and all her greatness. To lasting friendships. To the men who provided the transportation. To the girls who cooked great food. But, mostly, to the Wilde's who shared so much, made a wonderful vacay happen for us all, and so graciously allowed us all to feel right at home on their home on the water. We love you guys!

Monday, May 25, 2009

on the waters of heaven

Adios... We'll be blissfully vacationing right here... in heaven.
I'll tell you what heaven is like this time around
... but later...

another visit

Taylor was able to come spend another weekend with us! Sunday morning Grandpa Darrell wanted to take us all to brunch, so we headed over to Little America for some family time and good food.
Proud Dad. The other Taylor came along too!

Saturday, May 23, 2009

cheers to birthday, divorce is final, doodle is diddle, and friendships

The girls had reason to celebrate this week. Kammie had a birthday, Laurie found out her divorce is FINAL, Lucy Luc discovered she has a little cluster growing in her tummy, and plain and simple: our friendships amazing!at the Sandbar having a great time Mr RHB showed up a little later to flirt with all the girls. He "happened" to be at Lumpy's across the street watching the game... just between you and me, I think he decided to go there (out of all places...) cuz he couldn't wait to be with his girl Kamsters.
they share a certain love that I will never be able to give him.. wink wink

Sunday, May 17, 2009

celebrate harmony

Happy Birthday to our dear friend Harmony!
We had fun with the girls on her birthday night at dinner, and then Saturday Ryan and I took her to Wendover for some pool time, play time, and good food at our favorite: The Steakhouse. All were good times... that is for sure! Can you see how much my husband LOVES photo opts?


He loves them so much, he takes pleasure in ruining every one of them. Look at him!

Saturday, May 9, 2009

games

Taylor came this weekend to watch Kanab High School compete in the State Tournament for Baseball. Her boyfriend is one of the great players on the team and she was excited to see them play. We were happy that we could have her here for so many days, as well as her friend who came along. We did a little bowling one night so here's a few photos. Tay and SariRyan is a pro...what can we say?

Now for some baseball! What a weekend of games! Their first game on Thursday they played Juab and won 5-3, then Friday they played Richfield and won 8-6, and then Saturday for the championship game they played San Juan (Blanding) and beat them 14-13! They all three were INTENSE games and so much fun to watch. It got me all excited for summertime and watching the SL Bee's play while enjoying summer evening weather.
A HUGE congrats to the Kanab Cowboy High School Baseball team for taking STATE!!! Way to go you guys! Taylor G up to bat.Revelling in the championship moment, trophy in tow! Me and Tay before the gameSari and Tay showing their excitement right after the big winAnd... the two lovebirds: Taylor and Taylor
They both were so excited and I know how proud she was of him.
It was a really fun day.

Sunday, April 26, 2009

weekend with kids

We met up with the kids in Circleville Utah this weekend so that Jord and Ry could go do some fly fishing. The weather didn't end up being the greatest with a lot more wind and cold than desirable, but we tried to make the best of it by taking them to Bryce Canyon and hiking there for a bit and going to see the overlooks. We got to see Jord's pride and joy: his truck, stay in the 'world famous' Butch Cassidy Motel, eat at some really fancy diners, see beautiful country, and most importantly spend some time with the kids... something we definitely do not get to do enough.







Saturday, April 18, 2009

girl night

Annette asked Chal and I to participate in a girls retreat on Friday night. We decided even though we don't like to scrapbook, it would be fun to go hang out with some ladies and make our own fun. So, that is what we did. We ended up putting a whole book together for Annette. We are just sooo creative! barf!!the hot tub was more fun... especially when chal fell backwards and flipped into the cold pool! that was pretty funny!


Saturday, April 11, 2009

easter

Happy Easter! Thanks Tara! I love my flowers!

Friday, April 10, 2009

my hyrum

Happy Birthday Hyrum! I can't believe how old you are getting! Ten already? This pic was taken a long time ago, but I couldn't find a more recent one of the two of us! It is time to get that camera out!
Have a great day bud! I sure love you... my little arien ally!

welcome 33

This is what I walked into when I arrived at work yesterday. It was a birthday blast right in my face, and so cute. Thanks so much Chal and Lucy for surprising me and making my day special!
The cupcakes were definitely a hit for everyone who was lucky enough to be my friend!

Another year bites the dust... but who's counting?!

Sunday, April 5, 2009

girlfriend trip

It was past due. Girl trip time. So, Chal and I left on a jet plane and landed in Portland OR for yet another girlfriend adventure.
We dabbled a little in a lot of different things.
A wine country tour by James with Willamette Tours.


In his pimpin' red car that he was SO proud of!


A quaint bakery for lunch
a wine waterfall
a lot of public transportation (at which we became quite proficient) on MAXhours.... probably five... at The Rack downtown PDXan AMAZING dinner at our new friend Raphael's restaurant... he treated us well.

Cheers to new friendships and great dining!

Oh, and P.S., the reason we went to Portland and not somewhere warm... we wanted to take some continuing ed with MAC. We just like to keep up on the trends and what is coming in, going out, and new techniques. So, we met up with our class while we were there and received some insight and instruction from
Victor Cembellion. Great artist. And, yes we did learn some different techniques. So, it was worth it.

hours...at least five... at one of our new loves... Powell's books. We got lost inside, amongst the scent of old books and coffee, and the never-ending crave for more books, more books. Ahhh... so much to choose from!

and... a really random and crazy night out beginning at Henry's (yum) and ending many hours later (like we're talking 7 am the next day) at Starbucks. Yeah, this is where we waited for MAX, yep, didn't realize that it CLOSED at night. ...waited with the homeless in Portland. Peter Pan and Rumpelstiltskin to be exact. Funny how the next day after we left the Saturday Market:we happened upon our good friend Peter Pan, small world that city of Portland...

We had a fabulous trip. Thanks Chal for the laughs, the smiles, the 3 tg's, and for just relaxing and being your authentic self right along with me. Friendships like ours don't come to all. For that, I cherish it.

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

just like that...gone

My amazing cousin Jeff, who lived his life for God, is gone. He was a youth pastor in Jackson, a wonderful husband and daddy, a friend to all, and an incredibly important part to a and loving family and extended family. Please send good thoughts and prayers to his wife Heidi, and adoreable kids Landrey and Dawson. Aunt Cris, Uncle Terry, Aaron, Cameron.... I love you guys. This REALLY sucks!

I love you Jeff. I never told you, but you are my favorite cousin... always have been.. I looked up to you so much, even during your crazy teenage years, I thought you were so cool. And, then as life has gone on, and both of us have changed so much, there has always just been this special connection that I have felt. A lot unspoken, but not all. You shared with me hope. You shared with me love. You shared with me compassion. You reached out to me in small ways during some of my most difficult times, and it was huge to me. You helped me want to believe when I didn't really want to. I didn't see you often, but knowing now that for this time you are gone, I ache. Say hi to Grandma Betty and Grandpa for me. To be able to see them again makes me jealous! Until it's my time... Thank you for your love.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

happy march 17th



Ryan called me towards the end of my day and asked me to meet him in Sugarhouse for dinner... which ended up to be a really fun evening with our friends, celebrating St. Patricks day with lots of people around, fun music, and a great crowd. Cheers to the Irish and Best of LUCK till the next go 'round!

Sunday, March 15, 2009

palm desert '09

Since I have known Ryan, I have traveled to Palm Desert with him in March to visit the Indian Wells Tennis Tournament that they host down there each year. It has now become our tradition and something that we anxiously await each spring. We just returned from our trip and here is a little re-cap...
Our condo view from the back patio:


photos from the tennis tournament:


federer signing autographs for all the fans


beautiful palm desert at dusk

soaking in the sun and some great tennis
tsonga on one of the practice courts
the beautiful tennis gardens
ryan posing with Bud Collins.... anyone else not sure who he is besides me? hummm.. maybe i am the only one with my head stuck in the sand...

we had a wonderful trip, but like most getaways, it was way too short
until next time... we will anxiously look forward to our visit in '10...

Saturday, February 28, 2009

simple

A reminder to get back to that child-like simplicity.


An afternoon that is all about BUBBLES... that's it. Ahhh...

Friday, February 27, 2009

wishes

Just a few more birthday wishes to my beautiful friends! Lauren 2.25.09Jodee 2.28.09 Jackie 3.1.09

I love you girls, and wish you a happy happy year to come!

Sunday, February 22, 2009

21 Feb 2009

It's your birthday, it's your birthday, you can party like it's your birthday!
We LOVE Tara, so we had to throw her a bash. It was a pretty significant year for her, so we did what we could to make her feel special. Cowgirl hat, boa, fun presents, huge cake, lots of friends, music, dancing and a walker to help her out at the end of the night! She got hooked up!
Hey pretty girl! Blow out those candles!
Kelly decided for one night, this group of friends could be "plan A" instead of the "B list" that we are usually on. Wow! He must really love you bday girl! the ones that are always behind the scenes making sure we all get together and have a good time! 'Designated Dallas' and Amber. Thanks so much for coming! Amber is a little rock star! Blaire and Nick. Photo says it all... Never a dull moment when we are with you guys!
wink wink

Good times, so thanks for getting older Tara! It was fun to help you ring in a new decade!

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

memories

18 February 2006.... 3 years later...

When I think of Stan there are so many little things that come to mind. Little flashes of memories that over time my heart has taken thousands of pictures of.

He loved his late night snacks and because I spent so much time over at their home, I often would see him in the kitchen late at night dunking his oreos, or munching on popcorn, or scooping up a bowl of ice cream. I always knew he was eating because I could HEAR his smacking. It always cracked me up. He never forgot to offer some to anyone who was close by though, a sign of his never-ending generosity. In everything he did, he thought of others first. He was a true example of selflessness.

I remember all the times he would come home from work or school or a trip and be so excited to share a story, something that had happened to him while he was away, and with all his animation, excitement, and amazing story telling abilities, he would share his experience. He was so descriptive, not only with words, but with body language and motions, I felt I had been there by his side because I could just see the event unfold as he spoke.

Stan was so good at seeing the positive in everything. He rarely spoke ill of someone, and if he did, he was quick to apologize or take back what was said.

He was so easy to talk to, and so genuine in what he said. He had great advice and was always in tune with what a person needed to hear, and what he needed to share with them.

I never doubted that Stan loved me, not only did he show me through his actions, but he told me he loved me, something that not most guys his age are willing to say to a sister in law. He was always willing and ready to help me when I needed him, even if it meant that he was dropping his projects that he really should have been working on. He was never too busy for kindness.

Stan was very good at making me laugh, even at the most inappropriate times, like in the temple, during a prayer, during one of dads “sermons”, and in church. The only thing I would have to do was look at him and I would just laugh, and it was not just a laugh, it was always a gut laugh that was not easy to stop. I had so many good times with him just simply laughing.

I have such a vivid memory of his tenderness with Hyrum when he was small. He would sit on the couch with him, and Hyrum would have his head resting on Stan's lap, and Stan would just rub the inside of his ear, something that Hyrum to this day still loves.

I remember one day about 10 years ago when I passed Stan while driving. He was in his little Wonder Bread mini van, out making his deliveries, and I just waved at him, and he smiled and honked and was so happy in his nice “ride”. He was never too good for any job, he did whatever it took to support his family and make sure they were provided for, and he was always happy doing it. He was a true example of hard work.

I remember when Stan bought a used bed from a guy downtown. He went to pick it up, and like usual, he stroke up a conversation with the old man and found out that this man was a veteran from WWII. Stan said that he felt impressed to thank the man for his military service and for what he did for our freedom that we enjoy. He said that the man started to cry and commented that Stan was the first person in all these years that had ever thanked him for that. To me, this is just another example of Stan being in tune and not being afraid to act upon what he felt.

If Stan felt fear, he didn’t let it stop him. He was a man of courage and strength and you could just see that in him. To Stan there was never grey, it was black or white, wrong or right, and absolutely no in between.

Stan was so proud of his boys and loved them so much. He was so proud of Carmen and loved her with all that he was. Anyone who knew him could easily see and feel the great love that he had for his family.

I will always hold him, his memories, and his great example close to my heart, and will forever be grateful to have known him and to have shared so much with him. I will miss him more than I can express, but find comfort in knowing that he is in heaven laughing and smiling down on us. His memories will forever be a ray of sunshine in my life, even if a few tears are shed as they flood my mind.

I love you Stan, and I am so glad that I know that you knew that.


Hannie

Monday, February 16, 2009

just say no

I told Chal a long time ago that I would post about all the really lame gimmicks that I have fallen for in my lifetime. She thinks it's funny. And it is. We laugh lots about it. But, the sad thing is, I could have a really nice savings account with all the money that I have stupidly put into the following schemes. Don't laugh, cuz I know I am not alone. Hey, Utah is the mecca of MLM. But, wisdom comes with age and experience, (and a really cool husband that is way smart and would kill me if I allowed myself to be succored once again) But, with no further ado. Here goes:

Mary Kay
USANA
Nu Skin
Dr. Wallach's Majestic-Earth Minerals
Nikken Magnets
Uni-tel
GreenTeaHP
Calorad
HerbaLife
Isogenix
Fruit Plus
Squalane-shark liver oil

And then there are the most recent that I actually said NO to:

Kyani
Sxinny water
Form,Fixx,Fibe
Seven

Anyone else up to making me the following promises? Cuz guess what? That list up there... at the top. NONE of them made me a millionaire, but all of them promised they would, and the really lame thing about it is: I gave them LOTS of my money, and I do not own a yacht or a really huge mansion. Nope, I don't.

"Our product is the first of it's kind in the world"
"We are not a pyramid scheme, we have product"
"If you fail in MLM, it is because of your own failure, not the system"
"This is the chance to become a millionaire with little capital"
"Very flexible working hours, you can do it anywhere, at home, day or night"
"With the amount of income you will get, you can think of retiring early and spending the rest of your life on vacation"
"Our system is different from other MLM's in the market. In short, our system is unique"
"If I can, of course you can"

In conclusion, I have learned to just say no.

Sunday, February 15, 2009

little sis

RAENIE Happy Birthday to my little sister that has in so many ways been my big sister throughout the years.
I love you Rocko-peeko-traino!

Saturday, February 14, 2009

table for two please


dinner in? not typical, so very nice...even romantic...
king crab legs, salad, veggies, and favorite companion...
perfect.

all heart

This is dedicated to all you men out there. Bless your hearts for being so great to the important women in your life, and for making sure they feel extra special today. And, dedicated to all you women out there, for making sure you do the same for your important men, and giving them lots of warm fuzzies for all the fretting and fussing that consumed them in an effort to not make you cry! Happy V-day!

Friday, February 13, 2009

slump

Have you ever felt like you know the world is buzzing around you, people coming and going, doing and playing, laughing and crying, working and working, running and walking....
on and on...
But, you really just want to exist. Nothing else.
I call it winter slumps. And I am completely enveloped in the such.

Sunday, February 1, 2009

dutiful sister

It was a beautiful day last spring, I had major winteritis, and it was one of the first days that you could actually go outside without a coat on and not freeze to death.... I long for those days to come again! SOON! I decided to take advantage of the sunshine so I drove downtown, parked, and just started walking. And taking photos. This is one of them. I am in love with so many of the old buildings downtown, especially the churches. I captured many of them but Raenie tagged me and told me to post my fourth photo in my fourth album on my computer. So, there you have it. Now, lets just pray that the weather portrayed in this photo will return again to us soon. Please Mr. Groundhog, bring us good news tomorrow!
SLC, UT

Monday, January 26, 2009

tio time

Miran! Mami y papi! No les precupen, estoy bien con mis tios!

Here's some mama loves for you Chal, because although I know you must be in heaven down in Mexico, how can you not miss your teenie texers!?!?

As soon as he got here, he was OBSESSED with Ryan's fish. FISH, FISH, FISH.... and on and on, until Ry got home from work and was able to take it off the wall for him to love.

He had to give it a kiss.Then they read about all sorts of wildlife (and of course fish) in Eastman's Hunting Journal. Do you like our selection of children's books? Then it was wrestle mania for the next half hour.
Then bath time, which turned into tsunami of the bathroom. HE is the fish! No wonder he is obsessed with those creatures!




Then it was time for more fish. "Ryannie fish? FISH! fish? FISH!" So, they watched fishing clips on the internet. One right after another. Then it was time for bed. So, mami y papi , while you WILDE children (in more ways than one...) are romping and roaming in mexi land, rest assured, your child is safe, happy, and sleeping soundly here in winter land. Miss you, but pretty much you are out of sight out of mind in your child's world. But, that's how it should be, cuz that way you know he's not sad. See you soon!

Sunday, January 25, 2009


You cannot be grateful and bitter.

You cannot be grateful and unhappy.

You cannot be grateful and without hope.

You cannot be grateful and unloving.

So just be grateful.


-Unknown.

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

year mark

Happy one year anniversary to us! This past year has flown. I can't believe it. But, it's been a good one and I could not be more happy and content than I am right now. So, thank you Ry, for being such a great husband and companion to me.
And in honor of that year mark we checked ourselves into a little hidden treasure in San Diego on PB (pacific beach). It's right on the beach, cute, quaint, very clean, and close to lots of fun places.... many of which we became familiar and made lots of friends.


looking off our balcony, theres our ocean calling us


ryan's great camera abilities

it can't be much better than life on the beach

It is so easy for us both to switch into beach bum mode, so, having fun, relaxing, meeting friends, and soaking in the sun... it was all wonderful, and we indulged. Now it is back to reality, work, and another great year of marriage. To us...
That's it.

Monday, January 12, 2009

newsflash



Hey everyone! It's Chal's birthday today!

I just want to wish you a wonderful birthday. I am sure this coming year will be full of adventures and memories that will go down in history and be talked about for a lifetime, just like all the others. I love you my friend and am so grateful your sun shines on my life everyday... not just on TV!

Saturday, January 3, 2009

take that bcs!




Need I say more?

note to self

Dear Self,
Next time you decide to spend the afternoon with RHB in the PC (park city) and you're enjoying a nice lunch together and the conversation flips to how pasty white we both are and how much we both just really NEED to tan STAT.... well, maybe just maybe reconsider the impulse to find the nearest tanning salon at Kimball Junction just cuz it's such a great idea!
ok. so this is a bit extreme, but just remember, either one of you could look like this next time...

stick with what ya know, k? your local xotic tanning salon in the dc is sufficient enough for your tanning needs and that high pressure bed with NO burning rays will take great care of your pasty whiteness.

xoxo,

self

Thursday, January 1, 2009

new year b day

Caleb is FIVE today! We sure love you bud!

hello '09!

ry with megan and mark
RACE!!!
jamey and her sister came along
tara, heiko, melissa
dallas and amber... we love dallas' goofy faces
kissing in the new year

cute little amber with her new girlfriend
most of the gang
I won a clock! I never win raffle prizes... it's going to be a good year!

good night!

first year down

Happy Birthday baby Cache!
Tex and the minis (cam and nat's twins) had to open up his presents...
he didn't really get that part

Yeah for fire!

I am so glad he finally tore that thing apart!

rockin' the house of rollins

we had a little poker and fun at the rollins' the guys and gal (lana) played some cards while the other 3 birds had some fun a little seduction from lucy
a little groovin' from penne and bitty

and a little stylin' the ghetto fabulous shirt on mr rhb
SWEET!!!

Sunday, December 28, 2008

memory

Just for fun, click here and play memory
My fastest time was 23 seconds. How 'bout you?

worth it




We took the kids to this while they were visiting for Christmas and I highly recommend you visit this display before it leaves SLC on the 11 Jan. It is worth the money. Very fascinating. I went to the one in Vegas and was in awe there, but I have to say, I liked this one even better. So, if you have thought about attending and just haven't taken the initiative to do so, I am telling you... GO! You will be amazed and will learn A LOT!!

Saturday, December 27, 2008

summary

A little Christmas re-cap...I decided to go small this year. I didn't feel like digging all the Christmas decor out of boxes in the garage, so I just bought all new, and all smaller. It was so easy, but still brought the Christmas spirit into our home. Here are all of the kids presents nestled under our humble tree. Christmas for the kiddos. Christmas at Darrell and Gayle's.



Showing our presents off that Shalise and her students made for us. (Ceramic bowls that her students made and sold in an effort to raise money to fight hunger.) THANKS SHALISE!!
Dinner and photo opts at Grandma Gayle's
Christmas morning at the Crane's... WHAT A MESS!!!!

But, it just shows the magic of Christmas and all the excitement from the kids! Carmen and Mijken's kids had fun together, and that is all that matters.


giving the boys their presents...


Yeah! Candy and money!
One of Ryan's favorite parts of Christmas:
Seeing his wife make a fool of herself (which I am quite good at, and have no shame doing so) on the indo board and pogo stick.

Andrew and Zach were MUCH better than me by far!!! Caleb got a guitar for Christmas. Here he is rockin' out. What a stud! And then here we are finishing the day with another visit to the Brett Bailey's. Snuggle bug Keegen can't be any cuter. Uncle Ry playing one last game with the kids before bedtime.


We hope you all had as great of a day as we did, full of family-time and loves.

secret elves

These days of Christmas have brought joy to us, as we have given. We also hope that your heart has been touched and felt a little bit of heaven. And just in case you're wondering why we have done this thing. This time of year turns many souls to Christ, our Lord and King. He showed great love to everyone... now we give love to you.
Merry Christmas!
With much love,
your secret elves

Good ol' Gramps.
(Grandpa Memmott.. Chal's grandpa and Ryan's friend from way back)
We went over on Christmas day to reveal ourselves. It took a minute for him to register that we were his elves. It was so cute.
Ryan was dying over Gramps' retro house. He LOVED it! I was so shocked that after all these years of knowing him, Ry had never been inside his house.
We had a great time sneaking and leaving treats everyday, trying to be discreet.
We have decided to make this an annual tradition. We did it last year for a different couple and it was a really cool experience.
We love you Gramps!

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

christmas


Merry Christmas from our family to yours!

Friday, December 19, 2008

random: just how we like it

Ryan called Caleb last weekend and said "hey bud, do you want me to come over so we can go make some donuts in the car?" Caleb replied adamantly back "NOOOOOOO!!" and promptly wanted to get off the phone. Ryan hung up, and was like 'fine then, just thought it would be fun..' A minute later Caleb called back begging him to take him "I mean yes I want to go Ryan, lets go make donuts.." So, Thursday I am on the phone with Carmen and she mentions that Caleb is wondering when Uncle Ryan is going to take him out in the snow. She recaps the story telling me that Caleb had initially taken him literally, thinking that Ry wanted to MAKE DOUGHNUTS in the car. After he hung up and his mom and brothers explained to him what donuts really were... well.. that explains the quick phone call back. What a character. Anyway, it was snowing badly today, and this afternoon we had an appointment near Carmen's house so I reminded Ryan of his uncle duties in the snow, so we went over to the Cranes and picked up the boys and took them to the local church parking lot... It was something like this: We had fun. At least I did. We probably are not on the favorite list of the local plow company though. It was all fresh snow, and lots of it.

After that we were on our way home, back up to the DC.. (davis county) but after almost an hour in SLOWWWWWWWWW traffic and horrible roads and only making it maybe 10 miles, we decided on a detour to one of our establishments locally. CPK. It was fun.
Have you ever watched Jay Leno when he has "judgemental bastard" on? The guy from the Sopranos that goes around on the streets of NYC and predicts on camera all the history and characteristics of a person before approaching them, and then sees how accurate his judgements are by interviewing them...? Well, anyway, we were sitting at the bar at CPK, just enjoying the ambiance, people watching, socializing, and chatting away, when two middle aged women sat beside us and Ryan decided to be 'judgemental bastard'. So he whispered to me his predictions and then I dared him to interview them to see how accurate he was. We were laughing so hard. It was so funny, and I have to say, he was pretty spot on. The one thing he got wrong though was, he predicted that they were having dinner and then headed to a movie. NOPE... not tonight, for they had tickets to Niel Diamond. "Niel Diamond?!!" I said. Well then, hell, lets go baby! So......... after dinner, you got it, we scalped tickets to good ol' niel. (and for $15 baby!!) We never did sit in our seats, but we did sit in a few others that were much closer! We had such a blast. I am so amazed at his voice and how well he preforms and how exact he sounds in person versus on the radio or CD. Although we are not huge fans, it was way nostalgic to hear some of the songs, and some of his new ones are pretty great.
It was a random night, full of fun, circles in the snow, new friends, laughs, and some dancin' and singin'
Go Niel! You pretty much rock!



Niel in the great SLC!

Sunday, December 14, 2008

taylor






GO KANAB!

Ry and I went to Jordan H.S. this weekend to watch Tay preform in competition. They did really well, and ended placing 2nd in 2 dances and 3rd in another. Good job girls!






They ended up staying over a extra night due to bad road conditions, but we got a call this evening from her saying that they finally made it home. What a long weekend for them!

celebrate

Friday was our friend Heiko's birthday so we celebrated downtown with a little Italian. Happy Birthday!
Jared has the AMAZING and WONDERFUL idea... to grow a mustache just in time for all the beloved family holiday photos. So, guess who else is on board? ...my man, Mr. RHB thinks it is a hilarious opportunity to grow a stache as well. Humm.. we'll see how long he can take it.

Sunday, December 7, 2008

thrift 4

While wandering around my neighborhood DI a few weeks ago... you guessed it! I stumbled upon my fourth project. Mr. RHB was everything but thrilled when I announced my latest purchase. If anything is mentioned to him with his name and the word work in the same sentence, he instantly clams up, shakes his head, and pleads with me to 'knock it off'. It is just another one of those moments between us when I simply remind my dear sweet husband to "just love, don't hate." And again, he pulled through. Well, actually I need to take this moment to thank my wonderful father-in-law, for he is the one who got the truck, loaded this baby up, and delivered it to my garage. Thanks so much Darrell for taking the initiative and helping me out. You are such a great person. Originally I had a vision for this bad boy, and then it changed... And TA DA!
So obviously, that original vision was modified a bit. And, I even did the demo all my myself. If you haven't seen me lately, next time you do, make sure you check out my amazingly huge guns. I am quite the wonder woman. (i am kidding if you weren't sure) Thanks RHB for helping me move and re set up all the crap (cords, plugs, wires, tangled messes.. I hate AV) After a few choice words and a bit of work, I am sure he is relaxing as I blog, watching storm chasers, as you can see. (btw, can you guess what his first comment was after the set up was complete?)
'NOW I FOR SURE NEED A BIGGER TV...' It is just the same as me saying 'now I for sure need one more pair of shoes'... I suppose. It's all about perspective...

spontaneity

Thanksgiving week found us driving an awfully lot. Wednesday to Beaver to pick up Tay, then Saturday to St. George to take her home. That was going to be the end of the line, but then the phone call. 'Chal says she and Ben are catching the 5:30 flight to Vegas, and to keep driving and meet them on the curb at McCarren Int'l.'
... being the obedient friends that we are... that's just what we did...
(sad to say: if there is gambling, shopping, and gambling involved, it doesn't take too much arm twisting for the Bailey's)
We got a killer deal at the NY NY hotel and Casino. (even with just a few hours notice) Now is the time to go if you want great rates at decent places. Photo opts in one of our hotel rooms before dinner
boys doing what they do best... waiting for the ladies to be ready to go

We had a great "quickie" to Vegas. Stayed up most the night, slept in till check out time, gambled till 4, then hit the I-15, making it home at 11:30 pm. We really aren't too anxious to get 'back on the road again' anytime soon.
Thanks to the Wilde's for a mad time!

Friday, December 5, 2008

festival of trees

I felt really guilty tonight as I wandered through the isles of the Festival of Trees this year. Guilty that the dominating thought kept creeping into my mind of: 'look at all that crap I would be boxing up, lifting, loading, unloading, carrying into homes, unboxing, setting up, and arranging in the new owners home on Sunday morning'... That is, if I would have worked the festival this year. But, not this go 'round. I do miss it in some respects, but man it can be a lot of work. It was kind of nice to just attend.

Point of this post? To acknowledge all the behind the scenes work that goes into the festival. I've had a small part of it for a few years in a row. Although rewarding, it is definitely a labor. A labor of love. So, thank you to any of you who may read this that have had or do have a part in ringing in the holiday season in our small valley through giving at the festival. Sad as it is to read the dedications to those who have past, it truly is a way to honor them and their imprints that have been made on so many lives. Merry Christmas!

Monday, December 1, 2008

slippers anyone?

Have you seen the new maxi slippers? They are everywhere this year! Stock up for Christmas... they make wonderful gifts at a really low price. Hope your holiday season is kicking off in an even flow...
(thanks kel for the email. so funny!)

Thursday, November 27, 2008

Happy Thanksgiving! Wish I were this turkey... getting those rays of sunshine! It's OK though cuz we get to spend the weekend with Taylor and we're so excited to have her with us for a few days!
Hope your holiday weekend is fabulous... and remember: calories don't count today!

Sunday, November 23, 2008

utes rule

GO UTAH!!! I AM SO HAPPY WE WON!
Take that Provo!!!
(thanks to my s-i-l suz for the photo! it's pretty great, eh?)

so fun, but so done

Rise and shout, the twilight girls (and guys) were out! ... And now we are DONE!!! I wish I had more photos of the event, but it was just tooooooooo crazy and no time for photo opts. (If you were out at Gateway anytime this weekend you may have noticed our cute husbands peddling shirts for us. Thanks so much to our men for being such good sports!) Our last night of T shirt sales, and we are pooped. No voices, no sleep, no energy. All gone. ...Until next time.
But, before signing off, a quick shout to JORDAN COMMONS and their AMAZING staff, GATEWAY THEATRES and their staff, AND to our new friends out at JORDAN LANDING! They were so great to us last night out at the JL; Bryan and Kristen, and cute Christian at concessions... all of them were wonderful. So, if you ever frequent any of these 3 locations, just know there are really cool and efficient people behind the scenes making those movie nights happen for us all!

Monday, November 17, 2008

who knew?

Who knew this movie would bring so much hype to the life of 3 Private Design girls, their families, and some of their closest friends? Who knew they could convince hundreds and hundreds to buy tickets to a party that they are hosting on opening night at Jordan Commons, sell 600 tickets in a few weeks and still have people begging for more, sell t-shirts with twilight logos at venue after venue and be asked to come to new venues with more to sell, collect over 250 raffle items from ready and willing business owners, and all the while cross paths with and meet some of the greatest people in our community? It has been a whirlwind and so much fun. Work? Yes, but fun. Thanks to my two comrades Chal and Liv for enriching my life and never leaving a moment for the dull to overcome....
Stay tuned... the PARTY starts Thursday!

Sunday, November 9, 2008

sunshine: we need you

If I could just be baking in the sun right now.... We are craving a beach vacation so badly, but know that we need to hold off till after the holidays. It will be our one year anniversary in January, so that is the perfect time to plan a little getaway. But... I am a bit stumped. Where should we go? We want it to for sure be warm, in the states, and not too terribly pricey. Any suggestions?

show time

This past weekend was 'The Utah Women's Show' at the South Towne Expo Center and Private Design was there. Front and Center. We had a great time, met a bunch of wonderful women, enjoyed the chance to network, and worked REALLY hard!



We sold all of Private Designs favorite products, offered lip and brow waxing and make-overs using our Mirabella make-up line, and ...
...sold TONS of Twilight T-shirts. If you are interested, we do still have more in all sizes. Just give me a holler and I'll hook ya up! (yes, we know Twilight is spelled wrong on the sign! It ended up working out though, because there was no chance of getting in trouble for copyright infringement!)
Tex missed his mama, so daddy brought him in for some quick lovins. Thank you to everyone who helped us out: Kammie, Dana, Lana, and our two wonderful husbands! You guys are the best!

Saturday, November 8, 2008

seattle beauties

And then there's my seattle girls that I miss so much. Come vist Rubix and Sierra Mist!! Let's play in the make-up!

Friday, November 7, 2008

kenzers


Kenzie is bigger. How can it be? I just saw her less than two months ago. My little 18 month old sweetness. I miss you lovie.

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

hope

God Bless America...


Congratulations President Obama. Now lets look forward with hope...

Sunday, November 2, 2008

hallo-weenie

Halloween day. It was beautiful weather.








Every year The Barnson's host a hallo-weenie party in their garage. It is so fun to go see all the kids in costume prior to trick or treating. They are so amped up and excited, it's a riot.


Here's Gary being the perfect chef and host.
I'm "getting my head bit off" by the big bad wolf

Cute Brecken dressed as a scary witch THEN... we made our way up the hill to Brett and Kathy's to see the kids before they went out. Ryan decided to wear a scary mask and trick the kids. Keegen was NOT happy about that at all.
Go 'way! NO! NO! NO!

And the night coud not be complete without seeing our little "skunky" dressed up with no where to go. Chal and Ben met us for a bit to eat at Bountiful's infamous geriatric ward... AKA Robintino's, so we could see Tex before he went with Kammie to see his favorite Papa Dave.

girlfriends

Jamey had a party. It was fun. Dana, Jamey, Chal

The best part was Monique came! I have not seen her in a few years and it was so good to reconnect with her for a minute.

We were crazy, but Carolyn took the cake that night.


Cheers to girlfriends and friendships!

Monday, October 27, 2008

thrift 3

A couple weeks ago I found my third project. I fell in love instantly with this piece.


Just a little elbow grease, wood putty, stain, new hardware, and tlc...

and ta da! Here you have it, my latest masterpiece.

Finished. It looks better in person. I really like it and mister RHB and my f-i-l are both super impressed...

spare yourself with a spare


I stopped at the post office this morning on my way to work to grab my PO box mail, and as I stood there making sense of it all: toss junk, keep cute cards like the one my sweet soldier bro sent to me from Iraq, and another that my cute little niece drew for me. Ahh, I love good mail.. and was thoroughly enjoying the sentiments I was reading when I was interrupted by a Skywest flight attendant "excuse me, do you have a phone I can borrow?" me: "well sure, it's in my car" So, while walking toward my car she told me she had locked her keys in her car, and that her spare was inside as well. Using my cell allowed her to contact her husband so he could come rescue her, and she could finally get home and in bed after a long couple days of work. So, I left and headed to work feeling like a real good Samaritan.


And then.... I decided on my way home from work to go to Corner 22. I really wanted a Diet Pepsi with 2 lemons. It just sounded so so good. I parked, got into my purse for the exact change. It's a buck five, if you're wondering, and I don't like to carry my whole office of a purse into a convenient store, only to dig out a buck five. Efficiency, that's what I'm all about. Well, usually. I went out to my car after my transaction, and while sipping on my ice cold goodness, I peered into the drivers window, and you guessed it. There were my keys, right on the console, and right next to them on the passenger seat sat my purse, and yes my extra key was in my purse. I marched back into the store, asked the cute clerk if I could borrow her cell phone... sounds awfully familiar, I know...


Ryan came to the rescue, and as we pulled away I said, "so do ya know of a good locksmith?" It was then that it hit him; we were not going home to get the extra key. There was no extra at that moment. He proceeded to lecture me. Or tried. I pretty much cut him off... "honey, everyone makes mistakes sometimes, don't hate, just love." Just about that same time, we pulled up to a red light right next to a Bountiful Policeman. Ryan motioned for him to open his window. We told him our dilemma, and he was nice. He met us there, and after about 10 attempts and 3 different tools, he opened my door. Relief.


Moral of the story. Leave your extra keys at home.
ps: i apologized to my man later on for ruining his golf score on his last hole... (that's when i called him.) he simply said: "babe, for you i will do anything, it's ok"
...he didn't hate, just loved...

Sunday, October 26, 2008

life clock


Just a few tidbits that I came across recently. I loved them, so I wanted to share.


'Beginning today, treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend to them all the care, kindness and understanding you can muster, and do it with no thought of any reward. Your life will never be the same again.'

-Og Mandino


'It is the greatest of all mistakes to do nothing because you can only do little - do what you can.'


-Sydney Smith

Thursday, October 23, 2008

family fun

Monday night my parents had a Halloween night for the cousins. My dad did a rocket launch first, then a big seafood dinner, then a homemade pumpkin pinata out front. The kids were so excited to get into costume and hit that round orange thing chuck full of sweet sugar highs.


Will wasn't sure what to think of all the commotion.
Thanks mom and dad, it was cute.


Saturday, October 18, 2008

sweetest


Sweetest Day is an observance celebrated on the third Saturday in October. It is an occasion which offers all of us the opportunity to remember loved ones, friends, relatives, etc.. whose kindness, friendship, and love we have enjoyed. Happy Sweetest Day to everyone.
Especially to my husband. Because I know how much he loves for me to affectionately dote on him and whisper sweet nothings into his ear, followed up by passionately gazing into his eyes, and kissing his neck, all the while repeating over and over "I love you baby, oh yeah, I love you baby"... he Absolutely LOVES that!
but, alas, that is not his present this go round. nope, i've got a better idea...
how 'bout you? what will you do for your sweetest?

Friday, October 17, 2008

search is on


My beautiful sister Carmen needs a new husband, and I really want a super cool bro-in-law. So, any and all readers: put on your thinking caps and go through your inventory lists of available men. Upper 30's and younger 40's would be great! I am on a mission, and I've invited you ALL to join in!
Love,
H

Thursday, October 16, 2008

stan

Happy Birthday Stan. I miss you like crazy... Everyone does...

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

shel

October 15, 2008... 4 years later..
If someone were to tell me when I was 8 years old and playing hide 'n' go seek in the old barns on the Barton farm with my three best friends, Shelly, Jenny, and Carmen, that in 20 years one of them would be gone, I would have thought they were crazy. If they were to tell me that my best friend Shelly, that I played in the canals with, would no longer be around to chat to or email, I wouldn't have believed them. If they were to tell me that the same Shelly, that I used to sit on the steps with, that we pretended were church pews, and while we were singing hymns, we would smoke 'Q-tip' cigarettes, I would not believe them.

Shelly is the first person in my life that I ever referred to as my best friend. I remember when my dad took a job transfer to Ohio when I was ten, it was the hardest thing that I ever had to face in my life thus far, and the one thing that I had to look forward to, that brought a smile to my face were Shelly's faithful letters. I still have every one of them. I think we wrote from the time I was ten years old, until email became the way to communicate when I was 23. She was always there for me, usually not in person, but always by written word. She is the one who came to visit me during my first week as a freshman in college. I never told her I was feeling alone and a little lost, but she sensed it, I know, and made the 5 hour drive, just to spend that weekend with me. It meant so much to me, and we had such a great time. I love looking at the photos from that visit.
After Shelly got sick, it was hard. I guess one never knows quite how to act or react to a situation like hers. Some people have such a great ability to talk about the unknown and the most scary scenarios, but at that time in my life, I was not one of them. Looking back, I wish I would have been, but I never dug too deep or prodded her too much about how grave her illness was. It was hard for me, and I could only imagine how hard it was for her. I hope she knew how much I worried and how much I cared, even if it wasn't something I vocalized very often. Whenever we talked or emailed, I was continually amazed at her incredible strength and ability to cope with such pain, disappointment, and constant change.
The thing I will remember most about Shelly is her faith. I don't think I know someone on a personal level with more faith and trust in God than her. She always put everything in His hands and gave her life to Him. I am in awe at her strength and her endurance to the end. Shelly is my friend, my first best friend, and will never be forgotten for as long as I live.
I love you Shel, and still miss you so much.

silver papaya


I am SO excited to share with you my favorite artist! She finally has her website up and going and I am thrilled! She is not only one of my dear friends, but also an artist whom I have admired ever since I saw some of her very first paintings. Her style is so up my alley and I cannot wait until I have more decorating space so I can put some more of her work on my walls! Here is the painting that I commissioned her to paint for me about 4 years ago. It was actually meant to be gifted to someone, but I decided I appreciated it more than that person, so I kept it!

....sure glad i did... it will be worth a picasso someday ;)click here to see her website and her amazing pieces

Sunday, October 12, 2008

craving fufilled


ryan was craving spaghetti. good spaghetti. we love to support the locals. finally, we found a new restaurant we had never tried. the spaghetti was fabulous. the best sauce we've had, i think ever. we give it a bailey's thumbs up. if you live close, give it a try.
239 S 500 E SLC UT
ps: the bread was amazing too!

i looked out the window...

and this is what i saw this morning...
i just lowerd my head, got dressed, and headed for the tanning salon.

Saturday, October 11, 2008

witches brew

thanks so much tonia and amy! your fest was fun! pre party... casting spells onto the newlywed christian...to no avail, his heart belongs to lucy

witches amy d, hannie b, and chal w... look at that sexy brew!

Friday, October 10, 2008

clever

It is a character trait. Call it what you want... obsession, compulsiveness, curiosity, fault, talent, whatever... but it is true, I will try just about anything once. Well, while in the check out line at the grocery store I saw these. So cute. I am probably way behind the times, but here's a little blue light special for all you frustrated mothers out there that can't seem to get your kids to eat their sandwich crusts. Just stop fighting it and make lunch into "dynobytes"
Sincerely yours,
dr H

goodness

"chal's yummy asian pasta that we ate all summer long on the boat and now everyone who eats it becomes addicted recipe..."

1/2 cup canola oil
1/3 cup soy sauce
1/3 cup rice vinegar
1 tsp sesame oil
1/4 tsp black pepper
1/2 tsp ground ginger
3 tbs sugar
3 tbs sesame seeds
shredded chicken
cilantro
green onion chopped
1 lb elbow or spiral pasta

prep:
combine dressing ingredients and blend WELL. add shredded or cubed chicken, marinate overnight. just before serving mix in cooked noodles, onion, and cilantro. sprinkle sesame seeds on top and serve.

Monday, October 6, 2008

shower time

Our friends Cory and Stacy are the soon-to-be parents of an adorable little 4-year-old boy named "B" from Ethiopia. In anticipation of his arrival, all the friends got together on Sunday afternoon for a little shower. It was kind of fun to think of what the little guy will like and need when he gets here, vs what you would normally gift to a couple having a newborn. B got lots and lots of books. So, his collection is started and he will be learning English stat! Here are a few photos of the event. Jenny and Troy did a great job hosting and putting together the event and we all had a lot of fun. The proud parents (GOH's... that's what I was calling them..aka guest of honor)
Here they are opening the gift we gave them.
When we saw this print a few months ago we couldn't resist. It is so precious. ...and we had to get Rick to pose since he does so resemble the man in the painting. ;)
Jenny, the hostess, she is as excited as I was when I found one of my favorite childhood books: Tikki Tikki Tembo
So, we played this game. Boys vs. girls... who can put the stroller together the fastest.

The men won, which is actually fine with all of us ladies, now they can continue to have the honor of putting together all of the toys at Christmastime!
So, the other game was a tag team stroller race. It was hilarious! Gut laughing hilarious. Run boy run!
Alas, the women beat the men in the race. Good times!

Congrats Cory and Stacy. Can't wait for B to arrive!

Friday, October 3, 2008

twilight tailgater

OPENING NIGHT TICKETS AND TAILGATE PARTY FOR
TWILIGHT...
THE MOVIE
THURS
NOVEMBER 20 2008
AT DARK
$15


That's right, Ladies! The girls at Private Design have rented out Jordan Commons Movie Theatre for opening night, and we are ready to party! There will be lots of drawings and gift baskets and prizes for all. Thanksgiving Point and The District have completely sold out, and our Jordan Commons tickets are going fast.
So get a babysitter if you need one, and grab your girlfriends, because we are going to have a late-night blast! To get your Twilight Tailgate Tickets and be one of the first to see Bella bit by Edward, contact:

Hannie
801-898-2390
Chalyce
801-706-4572
Olivia
801-755-8385
or email
or stop by
8734 South 700 East
Sandy

Sunday, September 28, 2008

portland

When we decided to fly to OR instead of driving, I called my good friend Steph and asked if she wouldn't mind a couple houseguests that friday night. She and Justin were ever so kind to not only put us up for the night, but also share a bit of Portland with us that evening. They took us to the Pearl District. It is kind of the new trendy part of the city that has had a big face lift in the recent years. If I were to move there, that is where I would love to live. In the heart of it all.


They took us to their favorite spot where the crowds were fun and the food was amazing!


Thank you so much guys! We had a lot of fun!



After dinner we went to a few other places and decided to take a bike taxi to one of them. I didn't get a good photo, so here is sort of what it looked like.
Steph and Justin on the bike. It was really refreshing to be in a different city and experience something new to both of us.

first day!

First things first... before we left portland and headed west for the coast, we had to hit costco. Feeding 27 people for a week requires everything in bulk. After over an hour of up and down isles, loading and then unloading two overflowing carts, and paying a pretty penny, we were off!


and then we made it to the beach where ryan was back in his realm

and the pratt's couldn't have been happier after a long trek from Virginia



Dallin was SO excited to be on the beach!

bella beach community

sunset 389... where we stayed along with my two brother's and their familiesCamelot (all the way at the end of the street) where the rest of the gang shacked up
I put a sign outside of everyone's room; here is ours. There was S Foutz Flat, J Foutz Fort, Lodge Little, Crane Cottage, Ashton Alley, Grandparents Getaway, Pratt Pad, and Boy's Bungalow.








It is such a quaint and perfect little community. We loved it.

aquarium




baby will








sea lion caves




play time


purple hairspray sure was a hit!

Mom got older while we were gone!
having fun in the common area





caleb rode his scooter just a little too hard and fast.. showing off some great combat wounds as proof

crabbing

Deadliest Catch on Newport Bay

mom and dad
ryCarmen and Caleb...double trouble


two of the greenhorns
more greenhorns
the smallest girl greenhorn
let's fill those pots!Ryan got to be "the hooker"
throwing out our first potand bringing it inand getting bit by the damn crab! IT HURT! I don't care what you say Mr. RHB! my mom and raenie having sympathy
we were able to keep 40 crab, take them home and eat 'em up. they sure were tasty! thanks madre and padre for treating us to such a yummy feast!

beauty



Devil's Punchbowl
The 400 year old tree in Regatta Park

























family photo time

my handsome bro's


jake and his family
spud and his family
the "Pres" and her man
The 8 of us

the sissies


just standing back, taking it all in
Carmie and her kids
Ruby (aka Rubix...she gets so mad at me when I call her that)
the one's responsible for this mess
Rocko and her family





Spud and his fam again ("aunt hannie, why do you call my daddy spudge?" -emma)
jake and half of his gang
Mijken (Mij) and her boys
another shot of the pratt's







zach, the oldest cousin taking charge


are we done yet?!?

sea lions on pier

We learned that during this time of year that all the sea lions in OR are male. The females stay in CA where it is warmer. The males produce quite a show for everyone walking the pier. They are so loud!

funny label

We loved just looking at all the labels on the bottles. There are so many winerys along the coast and on the way to the coast so there are some pretty clever and cool looking bottles.


more boat time

here are a few photos of our "marine discovery boat tour" caleb is SOOOOOOO cool
i'm not afraid!

sea lions

Thursday, September 18, 2008

adventure time

We're off to the OR coast and hoping for a relaxing getaway, although we will be among 13 little kids and 12 somewhat rowdy adults at our family reunion. Stay tuned. I'll let you know how it all turns out! My man has been such a good sport, I know he has a bit of anxiety as he has never been around this many people for a whole week at a time. I think he deserves a medal for staying with me through this; I know I have been a crazy person at times in the midst of all the planning of this event. I'll have to work on that one.
One thing for sure...We are looking forward to those beautiful OR beaches.

Sunday, September 14, 2008

ahh... finally!

Just living is not enough. One must have sunshine, freedom, and a little flower.
-Hans Christian Anderson
Flower
Freedom


Sunshine

Congratulations Lucy and Christian!

best voices, best outfits

The night before Lucy's wedding we had to practice our musical number. It was a very important event. Our outfits were killer as were our voices. Here's to "I Say a Little Prayer For You"

Featuring: Chal, Mio, Kammie

pedi time

Amanda, my sis in law came in last week with her daughter Emma for a "double" pedicure.

Some days emma can be the biggest cheese for photos, and other days she plays shy girl. Still so cute either way... Lovies to you both

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

when all else fails

I don't know about the rest of you, but for the past few years I have had the most difficult time finding myself the perfect brown shoe. Be it sandal, shoe, boot. I have just had to go with what I have, but I really am not in love with any of it. So, this morning as I have been dealing with this dilemma yet again, I decided EF it. When all else fails, just wear your gold sandals.

Monday, September 8, 2008

go utes!

Ryan and I went to the Utes game on Saturday evening. It was quite the crowd and quite the people watching experience. We had a good time even though we bailed early and went and got a bite to eat. We were so glad to know that they kicked UNLV in the pants big time! Go Utes! We'll for sure have to attend another!

all about luc

Saturday afternoon was Brooklyn's bridal shower on the holy land. She had quite the turn out. More than expected. It was fun, and she got lots of loot. showing off her beautiful packages
her lovely apron that Amy Dalley made for her... it came with strict instructions to wear it, and ONLY it The bows must be preserved and worn again on the wedding day!

my bf Chal
crazy teeny tex

Kammie demonstrating another use for the bows... how 'bout that thong?!

party with the germans

Friends of Heiko's from Germany are in town so on Friday we had a nice dinner together and then later went and had some fun...Melissa, Costas, Heiko, Natalie
Russ, me, Tara

Party! (see Ryan whistling?)
Natalie and Costas
my new friend... she assumes my same dance position!

Tara and Heiko showing us how it's done

We had a great time, thanks guys!

Thursday, September 4, 2008

This Thursday I am thankful for:
My clean teeth, compliments of my hygienist sister Mij who cleaned them yesterday...they feel so slippery. Can't wait to get 'em flossed again in 6 months! (who has time for that?)
My husband because he is supportive and wasn't mad at me this morning when my alarm woke him from his slumber at 5 am...you suprise me sometimes Mr. RhB!
Kathy, because we can tell each other pretty much anything and it was really good to do that yesterday evening. Thanks for listening Kath.
My father-in-law Darrell, because I see daily how much his friendship, companionship, and presence mean to my husband. Because that relationship enriches him, in turn, it enriches me. We love you Darrell!

Monday, September 1, 2008

hugs for everyone

...a few tid bits i found on the Internet:


When The Beatles sang "I want to hold your hand," little did they know that they were really appealing for a medical boost. Forty or so years later, science has shown that physical touch improves peoples health as well as their relationships. One doctor explained that touch is as important as breathing, without it children do not grow and develop. Another describes touch "as essential as sunlight.... in the absence of touching and being touched, people of all ages can sicken and grow touch starved. It can also cause people to become depressed and immune compromised, and give them lasting emotional pain and physical damage."

So, don't hold back! Give hugs!!









caleb with uncle ry
the sibs with dad